My partner and I agreed to meet this black couple without the customary phone call in advance of meeting, mainly because they had two separate profiles on the site, her as a couple and him as a single man.
It was very clear when we met them, yes it was at a Premier Inn, that they weren't a couple. They didn't speak like that and they were quite sketchy on each other's details. They were clearly friends-with-benefits. My partner and I decided that their status wasn't an issue.
After a few drinks, there was no meal, we invited the couple to our bedroom for sex. This time it was very clear what was going to happen.
In the bedroom, I soon started to undress the other woman, and the other man soon undressed my partner. As soon as I saw the other woman's nipples, I was like a kid in a sweet shop (a candy store to my American friends). Her nipples were big. They were like the frequency and volume knobs on an old transistor radio inviting to be twiddled, which is exactly what I did.
While playing with the other woman, I checked that my partner was happy. She was. The other man was licking her pussy and she was moaning with delight.
Everyone seemed happy with proceedings. I then put on a condom and had sex with the other woman. During my post-orgasm period, I noticed that my partner, now straddling the other man cowgirl-style, was struggling to get all of his cock into her pussy. They gave up in the end. Sometimes it's good to be average.
Though the meet was good, it wasn't sexually right for us. His cock was just too big for my partner. We never met again as a foursome as everyone has to be happy and though I was happy, my partner wasn't. But we remained friends with the couple and invited them to our parties. At one party they came to, and because me and my partner could play separately, I started twiddling the gorgeous big black nipples of the other woman. My fun didn't last long as another woman intervened and started to lick her pussy. Realising I was a spare tyre, I hopefully gracefully retired from proceedings to find my kicks elsewhere.
The black woman described herself as bicurious on her profile, though her actions suggested she was bisexual. I've long been puzzled by the bicurious term that the site seems to peddle - the site asks members whether they're straight, bicurious, bisexual or gay/lesbian - I realise there are lots of other categories.
What does bicurious mean to you?
Have you ever had a cock that was too big for you? And, if a man, has your cock been too big for someone?
I've never fully understood the bicurious term. I can understand that someone is open to exploring their sexuality. But bicurious surely is a temporary label of one's sexuality. I realise that members can't be bothered to update their sexuality status on the site if circumstances change. But I always interpreted bicurious for a woman as straight but that their male partner wanted to see some lesbian action. And I interpreted bicurious for a man as bisexual because the man doesn't want to admit that they like sucking cock. I know my bicurious interpretations are very simplistic but bicurious covers a lot, arguably too much. I think the site should scrap this category.
Going back to the black couple we met, my partner and I once saw the man of that couple on his own at a sex club. I'm sure he'd be very popular at the club, though he would have had stiff competition. There was one man with a very big cock who just stayed on one play room for women to come to him for sex. But that just reinforced the view that the couple were just friends-with-benefits, and there's nothing wrong with that!
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I'm bi-curious/bi-sexual. I'm not attracted to same sex, but I still have fun with same sex.
I'm comfortable being close to another man in a threesome, foursome and moresome, though I'm not sexually attracted to men.
I have small boobs but long nipples I really enjoy having them sucked on while I use a dildo on myself.
Long nipples are sexy.
I love nipple play size doesn't matter and I like nipple play too
@Fuckme25343 I think many of us like nipple play, though I don't like my nipples played with.
Bicurious seems like a phase. A very short one, I think. Either you give in and explore, or...well, maybe then it can be a long one. Lol
I've had a few big ones. But uh...lubricated enough, never been a big problem. Sorry, had to throw the pun in there 😂
I love a good pun!
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Oh spunky, please tell me you didn't say "Come in, Rangoon" as you were twiddling her nipples!
To me, bicurious is what several other people have said - that you're attracted to same sex but haven't had a chance yet to have sex with someone yet. I do agree that there are probably a lot of bisexual men who arent' comfortable identifying themselves that way, who call themselves bicurious or heteroflexible.
I didn't say 'Come in, Rangoon'. I don't even get the significance of that, presumably it's MASH?
@spunkycumfun It is something my ex used to say, and I always assumed that it came from some movie where a radio operator was trying to reach the city of Rangoon. However, I just googled and every single reference was to the dish Crab Rangoon (a wonton with crab filling).
I'm not about to ask him now, so I guess it'll have to remain a mystery!
@smartasswoman I've never been to Rangoon, or Yangon as the city is officially called now. I like mysteries!
@sleek7124 I'm now going to see Chinese dumplings in a totally new light!
I think of the term 'bicurious' as meaning the person has never been with someone their own gender but would like to know what it's like. If you've tried it and want to do it again then you're bisexual. I satisfied my bicuriosity 45 years ago and learned I was most definitely heterosexual.
Yes, I've had cocks that were just a smidge too long. They fit but vigorous thrusting was very uncomfortable. I've never had one that was too thick.
I've never been bicurious.
Short and thick always does the trick!
I was bi-curious twice in my life: the first time out of curiosity when I was very young... I won’t say how young, just to confirm I wasn’t into girls and preferred boys over my bestie. The second time came during my midlife crisis, a classic, and again it just confirmed that it’s not my thing.
As for cocks, I’ve enjoyed many of all kinds, and yes, there was one that was the biggest of them all, though not the hardest. It was fine, but not exactly fireworks-worthy. I’m convinced that, within reasonable size limits, firmness and stiffness: which are not the same, are what matter most... as long as the guy knows how to use it skillfully
Long and thin goes straight, short and thick does the trick!
OMG! I've found somewhere to hang my hat!!!
And even two hats!
Sign me up!!
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I think your "bicurious" take is spot on. It may not be the case for a woman, but a man is pretty bloody certain whether he would or would not stick his dick in another chap's arse (and vice versa) and whether or not having his manhood between another man's gnashers is something he would contemplate in only his darkest nightmares.
As to the delightful coloured lady with the stonking boobs and nipples, all I could possibly say is "you lucky bastard!".
I did get lucky once but was unlucky the second time round!
Bi-curious? Once you've sucked a cock you're no longer curious....lol
That's my view too.
I once considered myself bi-curious and tried it out a lot. I was always a top never bottomed and I had 3 rules and you had to do at least one of the three if not all three. My rules was you had to give massage suck dick eat ass. A one point in time I been with multiple men but could not stay that way I had to be horny, tired of touching myself, and no female around for me to have sex with, and I love eating pussy. LOVE IT. Just for me to have sex with a guy and majority of the guys I didn't have sex with them I just got my dick sucked and ass ate though it felt good it was nothing like having sex with a female to me. I'm now 42 I haven't been with a man since 34 I've been with Transexuals and FTMs as well but nothing like a female titties ass and pussy and I love eating pussy sucking on titties and I'll eat the ass
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Love the huge nipples
Big nipples are cool.
@spunkycumfun Absolutely
Wow
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very good
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those are beautiful and magnificent!!!!!!!!!!!! PERFECT complexion for me :}
They are indeed perfect nipples. Thanks for stopping by.
Great Nipples!
They are gorgeous nipples. Thanks for stopping by.
I agree with everything you wrote about the bicurious label. 'couples' continue to approach me on the site but it is always the male, never the female. i to believe its the male that wants to either fuck someone else or they are trying to convince their partner to have girl on girl play. i mainly ignore those types of messages. i do enjoy being watched by the male of a couple but im not interested in him fucking me (for the most part). and i do believe men are bicurious. but again as you said, they don't want anyone to know. it takes a strong person to admit that they want to try same sex but it takes a stronger person to go through with it
I have no issue whatsoever men being bicurious, but after a few times of having sex with men, even if it's just a blowjob, I just wish they'd have the courage to say they are bisexual. This site may have lots of faults, but being homophobic isn't up there in its list of faults. The site is a relatively safe place to come out.
@spunkycumfun agreed
Bicurious to me is that a person may be intrested in both sexes. There is no cock too big I would say but that's just me. It's like enjoying an amusement park ride..
Another great meeting you had there my friend. I hope your Monday is a momentous start to your new week..🙂
I'm glad you like amusement park rides!
I'm with everyone else here, in that bicurious is something they're thinking about doing, but haven't yet. Dick too big?? Yes. One time I met a guy whose dick was SO thick, it wouldn't go in, yet it was very short. Imagine a tuna can.
I'm now going to think of you when I next see a tuna can!
To me, bi curious is temporary. That would be the exploring phase.
Then as I explored, I found I love touching women, kissing women, sucking nipples BUT I have zero desire to go down on a woman. None. I can get her warmed up - I'm a fluffer - I cannot complete the event. What do I call that? Bi friendly?
Bi-friendly is a good term.
Lord have mercy
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@spunkycumfun np
And this guy sucked cock too?
No, he didn't.
DAMN - big nipples can't ever be played with enough!
What does bicurious mean to you? - That they're into their same sex, but reluctant to admit it.
And, if a man, has your cock been too big for someone? - Ahh, no, 😀
It's impossible to ignore big nipples!
This blog post is part of a series of my swinging moments. See SWINGING MOMENT 1: FROM THE HOT TUB TO THE LOUNGE VIA THE KITCHEN, SWINGING MOMENT 2: THE SMOKIN' HOT CHAIN MAIL DRESS, SWINGING MOMENT 3: NEARLY A DOUBLE-PENETRATION AT A LUXURY HOTEL, SWINGING MOMENT 4: EVERYBODY WAS KUNG FU FIGHTING!, SWINGING MOMENT 5: SWINGERS HERE LOVE A PREMIER INN!, SWINGING MOMENT 6: JUST WATCHING OTHERS, SWINGING MOMENT 7: HALFWAY AT UTTOXETER and SWINGING MOMENT 8: BLOOD AT A SEX PARTY for other swinging moments.
These posts are solely my recollections. I readily accept that others may recall the swinging moments differently, especially the interpretation of the moments.