Now single ... again ... sigh
It's 4:23am, woken up and can't sleep. Not a usual thing for me, because I'm normally incredibly good at that.
I lead a very active and social life, I travel the world in my job (professional singer). In the evenings and weekends I am mostly gigging in a tribute band. I sing music from the 50s onwards, DooWop - reggae - Country and Western - Modern.
I have a Karaoke Hosting company.
I am a professional Dep on Tuba, guitar and vocals (including choral).
I live in Hertfordshire.
What I enjoy (and miss): Cuddles on the couch while watching a movie (I'll even watch chick flicks with you if pushed but I do have limits and safewords). Singing and playing love gs to you while you look at me adoringly. Cinema, Holding hands, Visiting friends and kink events (with you).
I have had two failed (vanilla) marriages and a few relationships.
I am looking for: Someone to laugh with, maybe sing with, someone to be "me" with. Someone who is intelligent and articulate. Someone who can be needy as well as independent. Someone to cuddle and tell them "everything will be all right". Someone to look after, cherish, love and grow old with. Someone who will sit in the audience at my gigs, and KNOW that all the love gs I am singing is for them, and them alone.
What I am not expecting: Someone who gets jealous when I sing "our g"/love gs/duets with someone professionally on stage. Someone who moans about things all the time (I am very much an optimist, it would be great to meet someone like minded. Someone who has a problem with me doing my activities (you can come with me most of the time ... just the secret society stuff will exclude you )
My thoughts about life .... If you want something, then go for it, but never do anything that you don't enjoy.
I'm a writer, mainly short stories, though I am in the process of writing a book.
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I talk to just about anyone, except very drunk people. Strange Jobs in the past have included being a treemaker. Recurring Dream: Being on stage and forgetting my lines Something no-one knows about me: When I was 11 I found the old lady upstairs was dead, and charged my friends 50p a look.
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Two women, tied together being whipped
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage, Pinwheel, Flogging
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.