How Not to be a Dick
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Gepost op:25 mei 2018 9:24 pm
Laatste update:2 januari 2019 8:13 am 1330 Bezichtigingen
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Name is changed but really, this is NOT atypical of messages girls like me get, is it THAT wrong to converse with me like a person instead of a, what, fantasy? I could BE that but, need to be a person first to you.... I post this for others who don't stop to think, "What am *I* offering?" Note, I didn't reply the first few, 'cause there was NOTHING in this person's profile and no photos.
--- exxxxodus13 Just got on this site not to far from me, so figured I would reach out. If you reply, I’ll send pix and info.
--- 5/22/2018 2:33 am exxxxodus13 Not too far from you, I am in xxxxx, I am in your area from time to time. Yes we can trade pics and I will send my cell for texts.
--- 5/22/2018 2:49 am exxxxodus13 Totally in. Let me know. Will give you my text after you reply.
--- 5/25/2018 Me Hun, I appreciate the interest but please tell me what, in your profile or in your messages, you think would be grabbing MY attention? Now having said that, I CAN say I'm not able to meet with you even if you told me anything about you, even something awesome, or any super hot pics... because while I do have my wife's blessing to meet and date other people she does NOT allow me to get together with peeps with spouses/partners unless EVERYONE is well aware.
That's not a judgment, I grok that and the need for discretion but it would just violate my very awesome partner's guidelines of HER comfort zone. But do think about, if you've reached out to any other girls like me, what you are offering... it might be awesome but again, would YOU have reached out to me if I didn't have a reasonable profile and hopefully enough photos to know I was attractive to you?
Again my apologies, I do NOT mean this to be ..mean, but even though I can't get involved with a married man there should be plenty of girls on this site who can but you need to look at what you're offering from THEIR perspective... you might be awesome but just saying you're "all in" on getting together with THEM doesn't mean they are seeing anything of interest. I honestly mean this to be helpful, put more of yourself as a person in there and I really wish you well finding someone!!
--- 5/25/2018 10:54 pm exxxxodus13 I am totally in to contact you. MWm, 58 but in good shape clean, looking to play in something I have never done before. You ok with that?
--- 5/25/2018 11:08 pm Me Okay, holy shit, you didn't read a word I wrote? No hun, am not. Good luck to you.
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