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I buy drinks and dinner for many dates. Unless the woman makes twice than me then we share. At this stage, having fun and enjoy in life is important. Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.
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Wow, so many people are posting the first day thing so early. lol I thought it was on the 29th? Anyways, I don't do dates either. Does anyone on this site do dates? I'm like you... I do coffee meets. Thoughts from the Garden...
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Wow, so many people are posting the first day thing so early. lol I thought it was on the 29th? Anyways, I don't do dates either. Does anyone on this site do dates? I'm like you... I do coffee meets. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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aflower2c replies on 11/21/2015 8:27 pm: I have had nice proper dates after I have met someone. Whether a tailgate picnic or dinner on the town, but I don't ask for that at the first meet. I think it creates too much expectations and leaves room for awkward silence or forced conversation. I prefer to save the pleasantries until after. It's tough to cut a first dinner date short when the chemistry isn't there, plus I am polite so I will feign the interest through dinner. So after doing that a few times, I learned just to meet on neutral ground. I try to establish if there is any chemistry when I am on the phone, before any “date/meet” is asked or agreed to. If there are expectations after talking then you (the general you) are probably with the wrong person. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I always let them pay for the first date - coffee, drinks, meal, entertainment, etc. Complaining about this to me would be a big red flag. Funny, on my first date with a woman, I insisted on paying. "Will he allow me to be me?" I think is the quintessential question of the first date. Yes? We're good to go. No? I am too old (and amazing) to settle. Great blog post!
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I loved your musings. I prefer partners close to my age and experience. That has always worked best for me. Thanks, I enjoyed this post. blog on!
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L'âge ne fait rien à l'affaire Age does not matter to the case ♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Kissses ♥ Annie ♠
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Be careful of putting people in little boxes! Not all men are looking for casual disinterest as you call it. Frequency to cum may diminish with age, but not stamina. Not in my experience anyway. I suspect the "old" men who left you unfulfilled left women unfulfilled when they were younger too. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I'm looking forward to hearing more about your adventures as a would-be cougar... and if you end up taking the cougar cruise, I'd definitely like to hear more about the activities (scheduled and not) on board! A question, though: On these cruises, are all parties clear about looking for love vs. sex? Seems to me that on sites like this folks can be fairly upfront about what they're seeking (which makes first dates a lot more viable), but on a cruise there's more room for gameplaying, and not of the good sort... Great contribution to the virtual symposium! Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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This was a valuable Symposium as a learning experience for me. I am so glad i'm not dating anymore!!! I gotta go find my wife and thank her again for rescuing me from all that! Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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